7 Tips to Improve Your Child's Sleep

To be able to enjoy life to the fullest, we must first focus on a healthy body and mind. Sleep is essential for both a healthy body and mind, yet sometimes the littlest ones in our lives struggle getting to sleep. These tips, provided by sleep expert Pachi Parra, will ensure that your littlest ones have a well-rested body and mind.

7 Tips to Improve Your Child's Sleep

Guest post by Pachi Parra

As a sleep expert, the number one question people ask me is what the “secret” is to getting a baby to sleep through the night.  Of course, there is no ONE secret. Teaching a child healthy sleep habits is a combination of lots of different things. But that doesn’t mean that there aren’t some tricks!

With that in mind, today I’d like to share with you 7 different tricks that you can start trying over the next few nights to get your child sleeping better.

Let’s get right to it:

Sleep Trick #1: Watch the Waking Hours

One of the BIGGEST enemies of sleep – especially for babies and toddlers – is overtiredness… and many parents are surprised to learn just how soon their children get overtired!
Here’s a quick guide to how long your child should be awake between naps during the day:

Newborns (0-12 weeks): 45 minutes of awake time
3-5 months: 1.5-2 hours of awake time
6-8 months: 2-3 hours of awake time
9-12 months: 3-4 hours of awake time
13 months to 2.5 years: 5-6 hours of awake time

If you make sure that your child is put down for naps BEFORE they get overtired, you’ll find that they fall asleep more easily at nap time… AND that they are more relaxed at bedtime!

Sleep Trick #2: Don’t Be Afraid Of The Dark

We humans (babies and toddlers included) sleep better in the dark.  Try making your child’s room as dark as possible. (I recommend using blackout blinds, taping cardboard over the windows, or whatever it takes!) In many cases, even the glow from a nightlight or a digital alarm clock can be enough to disrupt your child’s sleep cycle!

Try to keep your child’s room as dark as possible during daytime naps as well. This can often make a BIG difference in how long your child will nap during the day!

Sleep Trick #3: Be Predictable (And A Little Boring)

Babies and toddlers love predictable routines. And a predictable bedtime routine (lasting no longer than 30 minutes) is a great way to let your child know when the time for sleep is coming.

A typical bedtime routine might look something like this:

1. Bath (5 minutes)
   
2. Put on pajamas (5 minutes)
   
3. Nursing or bottle (10 minutes)
   
4. Read a story or sing some songs (10 minutes)
   

Make sure that this routine is the same every single time. Remember, you want bedtime to be as predictable as possible for your child!
After your bedtime routine is complete, be boring. Lots of children will try to “drag out” bedtime by playing games, throwing toys out of the crib, standing up, etc.
Don’t participate.
If your child has thrown their blanket or favorite stuffed toy out of the crib, calmly return the item without saying a word. Be boring, and the games shouldn’t last too long!

Sleep Trick #4: Feed AFTER Naps, Not Before

For a lot of babies and toddlers, the single biggest reason they don’t sleep well has to do with a feeding-sleep association. In other words, your child has “linked” the ideas of feeding and sleeping. They think that they need a bottle or nursing BEFORE they can fall asleep.

By feeding right after nap time – instead of before – you can help your child break this feeding-sleep association.

NOTE: This strategy should only be used before naps, not before putting your child to bed for the night. A full tummy is needed to make sure your child doesn’t wake up hungry during the night!

Sleep Trick #5: Same Place, Same Time

Remembering that our children love predictability, it’s a good idea to have your child sleep in the same place – at the same time – every day. This means that nap time should happen in the same place as nighttime sleep – rather than in car seats, strollers, your lap at the coffee shop, etc.

For many parents, simply changing WHERE their child naps during the day causes a big improvement in the length and quality of nighttime sleep.

When you are putting your child to sleep for the night, it’s a good idea to make sure that they fall asleep where you want them to stay asleep. In other words, if your child falls asleep in your arms on the couch and then wakes up during the night in a completely different place (like their crib), chances are they’ll be surprised… and start crying to let you know about it!

Sleep Trick #6: Try The “1, 2, 3? System

When your child wakes up during the night – or during a nap – and starts crying or fussing, try to wait a specific length of time before going in to check on them.  The first day you try this, I recommend waiting exactly one minute before going in to check on your child. On the second day, wait two minutes. Three minutes on the third day, and so on.

Why?

Well, everyone (babies and toddlers included) will wake up briefly at the end of each 45-minute “sleep cycle.” Most adults wake so briefly that we don’t even remember it in the morning. But children who haven’t learned to fall asleep independently need a little longer.

The “1, 2, 3" System gives your child the opportunity to get themselves back to sleep – without your help. And once your child has learned this skill, you’re home free!

Sleep Trick #7: Take Five

Before you put your child to bed (for naps or at nighttime), make sure the five-minute period before they are put to bed is very calm and relaxing. No throwing your toddler in the air… or watching TV… or tickle fights… in the five minutes immediately before bed.

I do totally encourage tickle fights and any other kinds of rowdy fun you can think of with your children. It’s fun for the whole family! Just NOT in the five minutes before bed. (Right after waking up is a great time to play!)

The Next Step?

Like I said, these are “tricks” – quick tricks that for some parents are the missing piece of the puzzle that gets their child sleeping through the night.

And while I hope that you’ll be one of the lucky parents who’s able to solve their children’s sleep problems using one of these tricks, you can also get a little more guidance on my FREE private club, the Dream club:  FREE private community called “the Dream club” and you are invited to join us!

About the sleep expert:
Pediatric Sleep Consultant Pachi Parra has been working with children and parents for the last 3 years as a professional nanny.  Seeing how many sleepless families are out there, she decided to take her childcare career to a new level; with a gentle and simple approach, she teaches their children to sleep well.

Pachi was personally trained by Dana Obleman, the creator of The Sleep Sense TM Program, whose methods have been used worldwide by more than 30,000 families to solve their children's sleep problems. This program stresses the importance of teaching the children how to soothe themselves into a deep, restful sleep.

Her goal is to help families to be happier and healthier one sleep at time, educating and empowering parents in the best ways to guide their children into good sleep habits.

Find Pachi here:

• Facebook
• The Dream Club: free support group
• Website

or you can email her!